In this post, we’re going to teach you how to be attractive. This post is meant to help men who are trying to get a girlfriend. Try these tips out, and it will not only help the process, but also boost your confidence.
Tip 1: Use Compliments
Compliments are a type of flattery, in wit or in speech. They’re also incredibly effective at making someone feel good about themselves because everyone loves being told that they’re beautiful, smart, funny etc.
Tip 2: Be Confident
First impressions are very important when it comes to attraction. Obviously, when you first meet someone, they’re not going to be attracted to you simply because your face is a beautiful work of art. They have to be able to get a sense of who you are and what your personality is like in the first few minutes or seconds that you meet them.
Tip 3: Be Yourself Around Her
The most attractive thing about someone is their individuality. If you’re yourself around her, she’ll admire how genuine and confident you are, and she’ll want to learn more about the person behind the facade.
Tip 4: Play Hard To Get
Women love the chase, and knowing that they’re wanted makes them feel good about themselves. However, you don’t want to play too hard to get because that’s when things will get complicated. If she thinks you’re too hard to obtain, she might give up and move on in search of someone easier to catch. Work on finding the balance between being hard enough to catch and being easy enough for her to want.
Tip 5: Compliment Her Skills or Talents
Everyone loves being complimented, especially when it’s something they’ve worked very hard for. If you want to compliment her skills or talents, do so in a positive way. It’s important to compliment her skills or talents instead of just telling her how good she looks.
Tip 6: Be Funny
Being funny can be an extremely attractive trait because you’re being your genuine self and being yourself. It’s impossible to tell if someone is being genuine or not just based on their appearance. If you’re funny, it will make it much easier for her to trust you, and she’ll probably find it hard not to laugh at your jokes.
Tip 7: Dress In Elegance
Dressing well is very attractive. There’s something about dressing up that makes people feel good about themselves. If you’re dressed in an elegant way, she’ll want to be around you and want to learn more about you because she feels that your appearance is what makes you beautiful.
Tip 8: Be Honest and Open with Her
Be honest and open with her because it will make her feel good about herself because she knows that whatever it is she tells you, it will be the truth. She’ll get to know a lot about your personality and become attracted to who you really are instead of some false image or facade that society has presented for us.
Tip 9: Be yourself
Be who you are and be honest. That’s all she’ll want to know about you. If you’re not, she’ll find it hard to trust you and believe in your personality. Just be yourself around her and she’ll feel better about herself because of it, whether or not she feels attracted to that part of you in particular. This will create a sense of trust within her, which will lead to attraction.
Tip 10: Get Out of Your Comfort Zone
You don’t have to stand there and act like the same old guy every time you’re with her. In fact, you shouldn’t act like yourself. Instead, be someone new and exciting. Make her feel attracted to you and want to learn more about whatever it is you become because of that.
Tip 11: Put Yourself in Her Shoes
Putting yourself in her shoes will help you understand what she’s going through more than simply watching her react from the outside. You may not understand why she thinks or feels a certain way, but if you put yourself in her shoes; seeing things from a woman’s point of view will help you learn how to relate better to them in general which will make it obvious when they’re attracted and gravitate towards you.
Tip 12: Do Not Be Afraid to Ask Questions and Listen
Be open and honest with her. She’ll respect you more if you don’t treat her like some silly nerd who can’t speak for herself. Ask questions and listen to what she has to say. You’ll find out a lot about her because of it such as what kinds of things she’s into, what her hobbies are, etc. Making her feel comfortable will make it easier for the two of you to build a strong connection from the start and it will lead to attraction in general.
Tip 13: Treat Her Like a Lady
Treat her like she’s the Queen. She’ll feel like a woman in your presence, and the more comfortable that she feels around you, the more attracted she’ll be to you. Let her know that you care about her feelings and want to make her happy. If you’re doing these things then there’s no way for it not to lead to intense attraction. It will just happen naturally if you do it right.
Hopefully this post provided you with some simple tips on how to get a girl attracted to you. You don’t have to do much. You don’t have to walk around with your chest puffed out or swaggering like someone who thinks they’re cool. Treat her well and make her feel comfortable around you. Then be honest, listen, and tell her things that she’s interested in. The rest will come naturally; and the more that she trusts you, the easier it will be for her to become attracted no matter what happens in the future between the two of you.