5 Signs Your Husband is Not Happy
In this post, we will detail 5 real signs that your husband is not happy with your relationship. This is a very eye-opening piece for most women because it teaches them what they can do to avoid being the next divorce statistic. So read carefully to help save your marriage and don’t end up in the same boat as before!
1. He Doesn’t Flirt With You Anymore
A lot of people may attribute this sign to him not wanting you as his girlfriend anymore, but although that is one possibility, there are a few other factors at play.
To start, if he has just started to do this, it could be that he is just getting over the honeymoon phase of your relationship and is just starting to see you as a real person. If you are an attractive woman, he may be afraid to approach a woman like you in real life.
Or he could be intimidated by you. This happens all the time. An extremely attractive man marries a very average looking woman and then suddenly regrets his decision because she gets all of the attention from other men. That makes him feel like less of a man so when she goes out with him, he starts to wish that she was next to some other guy instead.
It’s all about his ego and insecurity. He wants you to think that he is better than any other guy, but he just can’t handle being caught in the spotlight by you. So instead of dealing with his problems, he gets pissed off and stops flirting with you.
2. He Wants to Be More Like You
This is a big one because this will never happen if he is happy with your relationship. It’s not unusual for men to be totally hysterical over the way their wife dresses, or looks, or does her hair, but if he’s constantly gushing about how sexy you are and even goes out of his way to look like you, there’s something wrong.
If he starts borrowing your clothes and trying to get his hair cut like yours, that is a huge sign that he wants to be more like you. Why would a man want to become more feminine? It’s only because he feels threatened by the fact that his wife can attract any man she wants.
So he wants to make sure that you stay with him so that you don’t seek out a better looking man. If he’s a real alpha male, he’ll be totally obsessed with his looks and will spend all of his free time lifting weights and going to tanning salons.
3. He Suddenly Starts Chasing Other Chicks
This is a big one! If your husband starts cheating on you, it’s the most obvious sign that he is not happy in your relationship anymore.
If he never chased other chicks, then all of a sudden he is doing it, you need to question what changed. Did you suddenly become less attractive? Did you start putting on weight? Even if nothing changed about your looks or personality, a lot of men just can’t control their urges nowadays and that’s all there is to it.
If you are the type of woman who dresses provocatively and likes to flirt with other guys in front of your guy, then yes, this could very well be an issue with your looks or your socialization skills. Otherwise, he’s not interested in you anymore and he is just torturing himself by staying with you.
4. He Doesn’t Want to Do the Things You Like Anymore
In this scenario, you are always dragging him out to do things with you and he keeps coming up with excuses why it can’t happen.
If your husband enjoys spending time with you, then nothing will stop him from doing anything that you want to do together as a couple. If he refuses to spend time with you, then he obviously doesn’t want to be around you anymore.
Maybe your marriage was a mistake for him and now that the honeymoon phase is over, he realizes that there is no future for the two of you. Or maybe he thinks that you are too boring and that he needs to find someone more exciting.
5. He Suddenly Becomes Very Unattracted to You
When your husband becomes repugnant towards you, it’s because he is no longer attracted to you anymore. It’s a very difficult thing for women to accept because they always believe that if a man married them, then they must be attractive enough for him, but in reality it doesn’t work like that.
It works more like the opposite. If a man is attracted to a woman, then he will never be repulsed by her. He will always be interested and open to getting to know her on a deeper level.
If you have checked all of these signs and your husband still denies that he is unhappy with you, then he is lying through his teeth. If he doesn’t like you anymore, don’t waste any more time trying to save your marriage. You can call yourself a wife, but even if you are married to the most handsome man in the world, it’s not going to last for very long if your husband doesn’t want it anymore.